I used to have an ex-colleague who was very negative. In our conversations, she would complain endlessly about her co-workers, her work and her life. Talking to her wasn't a pleasant experience at all. When I met her, I decided to go online and look for tips to deal with such negative persons. And here I am, I will provide you with some suggestions in case you know any negative person:
- Don't engage in negativity with them
- Try to change the topic continuously.
- Talk indirectly about a positive experience in your life while talking to them.
- Try to keep a smile on your face, it's contagious!!
- Don't talk to them in personal issues, spread hope through talking about lighter issues (weather, cooking, hobbies, dreams..)
I like these hints they're actually nice but some people's attitude is contagious! If you try to keep them up by being positive and active, they think you don't care about their feelings, so the best solution is a slap on the face haha. It will wake them up, we all get depressed and disappointed but no need to get every single person on earth involved in their personal depression that every one passes through
ReplyDeleteDear Shatha, negative people are many nowadays trying to make us down. Instead, we should find way(s) to change them totally so that they can become better in their job, with their families, friends, others can love them and take more respect from them. I liked the your tips they are great!!
ReplyDeleteThese are very important tips to use with people who really bring our mood down with their pessimism and anxiety. Such negative people cause discouragements and always warn you or put You down. If these people don't change then we should really walk away from them. If we really want to help then we should understand their negativity towards issues. We should see different perspectives and have a sense of empathy to understand others.
ReplyDeleteThese tips are very important, i think we can't change these people, so the best way is to get rid from them.
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